Comments on: Take the Rose Colored Glasses Off! (Part 1)

By: Bono

Bono — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 22:35:42 +0000

Finally! This is just what I was looking for.

By: Addriene

Addriene — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 11:06:57 +0000

Very true! Makes a difference to see someone spell it out like that.

By: Leatrice

Leatrice — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 08:42:24 +0000

This is exactly what I was looinkg for. Thanks for writing!

By: Larissa Dayana Jean

Larissa Dayana Jean — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 07:47:42 +0000

T.K. , I like your comment on how “love doesn’t give you the right to ignore problems but the strength and widsom on how to handle problems.” That is so true! I think it’s important that young ladies are realistic about the guys that they choose to engage in a relationship with. The truth of the matter is, if you are ready for a purposeful relationship that will lead to a God honoring marriage, and he has the “Peter Pan Syndrome”–refuses to grow up, you are wasting your time. A lot of times, young women love the idea of “being in love” and negate that a relationship requires a lot more than just fuzzy feelings inside.

By: Tiffany K

Tiffany K — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 07:46:31 +0000

Just wanted to make another comment. When people use the phrase “Love is Blind” I think they feel it means that when you love someone you don’t see any of their faults. So that makes me think of the Bible and Jesus’ sacrifice for us. Yes Jesus loves us despite our faults but it doesn’t make Him blind to it as if it never existed. I feel that real love brings things into reality and gives you the power to really and truly deal with things and people. Like in Corinthians, when it says that love is patient and kind, you’re gonna need patience when your mate is acting a fool. Love doesn’t give you the right to ignore problems but the strength and wisdom on how to handle problems.

By: Tiffany K

Tiffany K — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 07:46:07 +0000

Falling in love is beautiful but man does it make you look like a fool sometimes. I remember watching movies where the daughter says to her dad “I don’t care what you think! I love him and so what if he has 5 kids and lives with his momma and doesn’t have a job! He loves me !” You have to come to grips with reality. I just thank God for opening my eyes. I remember one time when I thought I was in love with this guy and was totally blinded by my emotions. But once God opened my eyes to what was really going on I felt so stupid, lol. I can laugh about it now because it was a lesson learned but that thing really did hurt. If you really trust God with your heart He will show you the truth and try to prevent you from making really crazy decisions.